--- title: "Call Centre Etiquette: Is 'Computer Says No' the Only Script They Know?" description: Explore the chaos of call centre etiquette, from 'Computer says no' moments to scripted frustrations, in this satirical critique. image: https://yannsomou.com/hubfs/DALL%C2%B7E%202025-01-24%2016.16.48%20-%20A%20fully%20polished%20and%20vibrant%20header%20image%20for%20a%20blog%20about%20call%20centre%20etiquette.%20The%20image%20depicts%20a%20frustrated%20customer%20on%20the%20phone%2c%20surrounded%20by%201.jpg --- [Skip to content](https://yannsomou.com/blog-lifes-too-short-for-idiocy/call-centre-etiquette-computer-says-no#main-content) [![Yann Somou written in white in idiot font on black background](https://yannsomou.com/hs-fs/hubfs/YannSomou%20Logo%20circle.jpg?width=300&height=300&name=YannSomou%20Logo%20circle.jpg)Homepage](https://yannsomou.com) - [Home](https://yannsomou.com) - [Books](https://yannsomou.com/127-reasons-why-you-are-an-idiot-the-book) - [Blog](https://yannsomou.com/blog-lifes-too-short-for-idiocy) - [About](https://yannsomou.com/about) - [Podcast](https://open.spotify.com/show/2gyivGhGg0nFAErAGIis17?si=a875722961ab4e58) [THE IDIOT REPORT](https://34705fc4.sibforms.com/serve/MUIFAB68hohKsAIGs1ZLbVCZec7iCncnAnT9NPu7Sp-J2EWAVD4FWajtJ8WeFr2-3KedaqLR1cUK8cE1NwpN1eVsuNvAisIb8JZkMy1OVDNJue-9haGdp5BUPuAxXciM_mpH5SGhrNOu1A3D_rztEoMshoVKTnGD21rJVs-CwcvpFoVpGekdxEfFQiLI63yN4oyQwlgGqD6Kuwdd) - [Home](https://yannsomou.com) - [Books](https://yannsomou.com/127-reasons-why-you-are-an-idiot-the-book) - [Blog](https://yannsomou.com/blog-lifes-too-short-for-idiocy) - [About](https://yannsomou.com/about) - [Podcast](https://open.spotify.com/show/2gyivGhGg0nFAErAGIis17?si=a875722961ab4e58) [THE IDIOT REPORT](https://34705fc4.sibforms.com/serve/MUIFAB68hohKsAIGs1ZLbVCZec7iCncnAnT9NPu7Sp-J2EWAVD4FWajtJ8WeFr2-3KedaqLR1cUK8cE1NwpN1eVsuNvAisIb8JZkMy1OVDNJue-9haGdp5BUPuAxXciM_mpH5SGhrNOu1A3D_rztEoMshoVKTnGD21rJVs-CwcvpFoVpGekdxEfFQiLI63yN4oyQwlgGqD6Kuwdd) ![A humorous illustration of a frustrated customer on the phone, surrounded by chaotic elements like stacked paperwork, a computer displaying 'Computer says no,' and a clock emphasizing long wait times, symbolizing poor call centre etiquette.](https://yannsomou.com/hs-fs/hubfs/DALL%C2%B7E%202025-01-24%2016.16.48%20-%20A%20fully%20polished%20and%20vibrant%20header%20image%20for%20a%20blog%20about%20call%20centre%20etiquette.%20The%20image%20depicts%20a%20frustrated%20customer%20on%20the%20phone%2c%20surrounded%20by%201.jpg?width=3200&height=1200&name=DALL%C2%B7E%202025-01-24%2016.16.48%20-%20A%20fully%20polished%20and%20vibrant%20header%20image%20for%20a%20blog%20about%20call%20centre%20etiquette.%20The%20image%20depicts%20a%20frustrated%20customer%20on%20the%20phone%2c%20surrounded%20by%201.jpg) # Call Centre Etiquette: Is 'Computer Says No' the Only Script They Know? ![Yann Somou](https://7528315.fs1.hubspotusercontent-na1.net/hub/7528315/hubfs/raw_assets/public/mV0_d-cms-elevate-theme_hubspot/elevate/images/avatar-placeholder.jpg?width=48&height=48&name=avatar-placeholder.jpg) Yann Somou 24 January 2025 Picture this: you’re on hold, serenaded by tinny elevator music that sounds like it was recorded in a wind tunnel. Every so often, a robotic voice interrupts to remind you, “Your call is important to us.” Is it though? Is it really? Enter the realm of call centres – where dreams of resolution go to die and the phrase “Computer says no” is gospel. This is not a rant. This is an autopsy of everything wrong with call centre etiquette, served with a side of sarcasm and a sprinkling of reality. Let’s begin. ## **Call Centre Etiquette 101: Did They Skip Training Day?** Let’s start with the basics. [Call centre etiquette should be simple](https://www.zendesk.com/blog/10-best-call-center-etiquette-tips-support-agents/): listen, respond appropriately, solve the problem. So why do so many agents seem like they’ve been trained by a malfunctioning chatbot? Is there a secret “How to Frustrate Customers in Three Easy Steps” manual we don’t know about? We’ve all encountered the classics: the agent who’s more monotone than an audiobook about accounting, the one who puts you on hold for eternity without explanation, or the champion of saying, “That’s not my department” before transferring you into the abyss. What happened to good old-fashioned “proper phone etiquette at work”? Did it go out of style like flip phones and CDs? And let’s not forget the *training* these agents receive. Judging by their enthusiasm (or lack thereof), it’s hard to believe there was ever a training session. Perhaps it consisted of someone yelling, “Just stick to the script!” while throwing stress balls at them. Real inspirational stuff. ### **The Curse of the Script: When Agents Can’t Think Outside the Box** [Scripts. They’re supposed to guide agents, but in practice, they often act like shackles](https://www.callcentrehelper.com/11-things-a-call-centre-agent-should-never-say-but-many-do-68516.htm). A customer’s unique issue doesn’t matter; if the script doesn’t cover it, tough luck. You’ll likely hear variations of, “I’m sorry, but our policy doesn’t allow that,” until your ears bleed. And if you’re lucky enough to reach chat support, be prepared for a tsunami of copy-pasted responses. “Chat support etiquette,” it seems, is code for “replace actual solutions with emoji-filled apologies.” Nothing says “we care” like a pre-written “Let me look into that for you” followed by radio silence. Surely, these agents have the capacity for critical thinking? But no. Asking them to deviate from the script is like asking a fish to climb a tree. You’ll be stuck in an endless loop of canned lines while your patience ebbs away. ### **Computer Says No: The Iconic Call Centre Experience** Ah, the phrase that defines a generation of call centre frustrations: “[Computer says no](https://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/andrew-laird/lets-release-public-servi_b_8236936.html).” It’s not just a meme-worthy punchline; it’s the mindset of entire customer service departments. Forget about flexibility or common sense. If the computer doesn’t have a pre-approved answer, you’re out of luck. Ever asked to speak to a manager, only to be told they’re “unavailable”? That’s code for “I’m too scared to admit I’m not empowered to help.” [This rigidity is why so many customers find themselves on a merry-go-round of transfers](https://www.yannsomou.com/customer-service-etiquette-entitled-customers-myth), ending back at square one with a new agent who asks, “Can I have your account number again?” What’s worse? Outsourced customer service often amplifies this problem. Scripts and systems become even more rigid, leaving both agents and customers powerless. Which brings us to our next point… ### **Outsourcing: Why Customer Service Gets Shipped to India** Let’s address the elephant in the room: why is customer service outsourced to India? For one, it’s cheaper. Two, it’s cheaper. And three, well, you guessed it. But saving money comes at a cost – namely, the disconnect between customer needs and agent understanding. Outsourcing itself isn’t inherently bad, but when companies prioritise cost-cutting over training and cultural context, the results can be disastrous. You’ll get agents who don’t fully grasp the nuances of your issue, leading to a frustrating cycle of miscommunication. Combine that with the script curse, and it’s a recipe for madness. But let’s be clear: the problem isn’t the agents themselves. It’s the system that sets them up to fail. Imagine being handed a rigid script and expected to handle furious customers with little flexibility or context. It’s like trying to extinguish a fire with a teacup of water. ### **What We Really Want from Call Centre Agents** It’s not rocket science, really. Customers don’t want miracles; they just want competence. We’d like agents to: 1. #### **Listen** Truly hear what we’re saying instead of searching for the next script line. 2. #### **Empathise** You don’t have to solve world hunger, but a little human understanding goes a long way. 3. #### **Act Flexibly** Empower agents to make decisions instead of hiding behind policies. 4. #### **Know When to Escalate** If the issue is above their pay grade, don’t play superhero. Just pass it on. Is this too much to ask? Judging by current standards, apparently, yes. But we can dream, can’t we? ### **Conclusion** So, the next time you find yourself trapped in a labyrinth of a call centre experience, remember: you’re not alone. Somewhere out there, another poor soul is also yelling, “Can I speak to a human being?” into the void. Maybe one day, call centres will prioritise real etiquette and customer satisfaction over cost-cutting and rigid scripts. Until then, we’ll be here, shaking our heads and muttering, “Computer says no.” --- #### Enjoying the blog? Why not grab a copy of the book that ties it all together, [*127 Reasons Why You Are An Idiot*](https://yannsomou.com/127-reasons-why-you-are-an-idiot-the-book)! Chock full of 127 hilarious, sweary, sarcastic, hard-hitting rants about everyday things that everyday idiots do, with quasi-serious, tongue-in-cheek exercises to help idiots be less idiotic.   [![3D image of the book 127 Reasons Why You Are An Idiot by Yann Somou, shown as both a physical paperback and a digital tablet version. The cover features a black-and-white photo of the author with arms crossed, looking unimpressed. Subtitle reads: 'And How To Be Less... 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